Letting Off Steam

Let's face it; everyone gets pissed. We have so much going on in our lives..school, work, family, friends, significate others, possibly pets, etc etc. Sometimes life gets over-whelming, and it's ok to figure out what to do with all the pent up anger/frustration you may have bottled up inside. What's important, is that you find a way to relieve that tension, because it's not good to keep it inside. Do something you enjoy; talk a walk, read a book, write poetry, listen to music, punch something, scream, etc. Do what feels good and allows you some relief. When you feel better, it will show in everything you do.

Transfering Madness

If you decide to go to school at a technical college, make sure you choose the right way that you want to stay at until you graduate. I originally went to Fox Valley Technical College and then transfered to Western Technical College. In the transfer process, I lost a large amount of my credits. Because of this, I basically threw my money out the window. I had to take 19-20 credits both semesters here at Western, AND take 3 classes this summer just so I could graduate on time. This is a headache I could have easily avoided if I would have gone to Western in the first place. So be wise, make a good decision, and stick to it.

Spanish Minor

As I was getting ready to attend Viterbo University to Major in Marketing, I started to think about what I want to do with my life. I wasn't sure what exactly I wanted to do for a career in Marketing, or if I wanted a little extra in my educational background. I knew I didn't want to double major, so I started to think of having a Minor. Then my roomate, who is fluent in English and Spanish, suggested taking Spanish as a Minor. I realized, after doing some research, that Spanish is going to explode in America in the next decade. Having a degree with a minor in Spanish is going to give me a strong, competitive advantage over the competition. If you're looking for a little extra something with your business degree, look into learning another language.

Beer Pong

Beer pong has got to be my all time favorite game, though I tend to take it a bit too seriously at times. Interaction at parties is great; it helps you relax, have fun and meet new people. There are many different rules for pong, and everyone plays a little differently. The important thing to remember is to always respect house rules; if you're at someone's house and they play differently than you do, suck it up. Play the way they play, or leave. Remember, it's about having fun and interacting with new people.

Music for My Soul

If there is one thing that has helped me keep my sanity during tough times at school, it's definatly music. Music is my getaway from life..I can chill out and relax and enjoy what I'm listening to. I love all different types of music, and I have music for all my moods. Listening to soft, instrumental music is very beneficial to me when I'm trying to study or having a hard time falling asleep. When I'm angry, I like to throw on some rock or metal and it helps me release some of my aggression. When I'm in a fun, party mood, I listen to rap. The list goes on. My advice, find something you love, and use it.

FINALS....and Procrastination

Every semester is full of homework,tests, projects, powerpoints, and papers. At the end of each semester is what every college students dreads; FINALS. It always seems like I have a lot of stuff going on throughout the semester, until the last 2 weeks approach. Then I realize how LITTLE I had going on (atleast compared to what I have going on at the time). My biggest problem is that I am a procrastinator. I hold everything off until the last minute. I always think to myself, oh, I have time to do that tomorrow so I'll just work on it then. Tomorrow turns into the next day, which turns into next week, etc. Then it seems like everything hits me at once and I have so much going on that I barely have time to sleep. Dont' get me wrong, I definatly get all my homeowork and projects done. However, I add a ridiculous amount of stress onto myself that could be avoided if I just used my time wisely. I've been doing this since I was in 7th grade, so you'd think I'd learn by now and change my habits. Every year I say to myself, next year I'm going to do it differently. Then I start the new year/semester the way I should by using time wisely and getting things done ahead of time, but that doesn't last long. I easily and quickly slip back into my old ways. If you haven't gotten anything out of any of my previous advice, please, get something out of this. USE YOUR TIME WISELY..because it's not something you can get back.

Advising Week

Every semester, before a new semester begins, your school has Advising Week or Advising Day. This is your chance to sit down with your advisor and evaluate where you are in your program, and figure out what classes you need to take in order to graduate on time. Don't blow this off! If I wouldn't have met with my advisor, I'd be totally screwed. I transfered schools and a lot of my credits didn't transfer, but my advisor was able to over-ride a lot of my classes which allowed me to take certain classes that had prerequisites that I normally would not have been able to take. He also helped me put a perspective on what I needed to get done to get done with school on time. If it wasn't for him, I would not be able to graduate this Spring and attend Viterbo next Fall. Thankfully, he steered me in the right direction and I'm ready to accept my Associate Degree and head off to start my Bachelor's.

Books

One essential part of college are your text books. What you may not have been told, is that your books can be rather expensive! My semester, first year, of college I spend $850 on my textbooks! I later found on that I could have gone to HalfBooks.com and gotten them waaaaaay cheaper. The next year that I purchased my books, I used Halfbooks.com to buy all my books, rather than purchasing them at the college book store, and I only spent $300 on books. BIG difference, especially for a struggling college student. So for future reference, search around a bit before you buy your books. You can get used books that are in mint condition, for half or less of the price of it brand new in the store. You can use HalfBooks.com, Google, Amazon and more to search.

Freshman 5

Your Freshman year of college usually isn't the healthiest. Ever heard of the Freshman 5? Basically, the average Freshman gains 5 pounds during their first year. Why is this? The simple answer: The food they eat. Most students are not used to being on their own so they aren't sure how to cook nice meals or how to balance their nutrition. They end up eating out at fast food restaurants more often then they should, and since they are normally broke, they buy cheap foods. Unfortunatly, cheap foods like Ramen, Mac n Cheese, and hot dogs, are very healthy for you. So be wise and buy some healthy things like salads, fruits n veggies, and try to eat the proper things from the food pyrimad. If eating in the cafeteria, just pay attention to what you're picking out.

Facebook

If you haven't already noticed, social networking sites like Facebook, Myspace, and Twitter are getting huge!!! Businesses are beginning to spend more money on advertisements within these sites, and more and more people are starting to use these sites for communicating with friends. Having a Facebook is fun, and it's really good in establishing a large network, but you need to watch what you post. Companies are beginning to look at applicants Facebook pages to see how they "really are". If you post a bunch of pictures of you drinking, doing illegal things, or posting controversal things, you can lose out on a job opportunity. Be smart, and realize that you aren't the only person in the world with access to your page.

Final Post

As I write my final post, I want to sum up the best lessons that I have learned while in college. The first is that YOU are the only one you can rely on. Sure you have friends that have been with you through tough situations, but at the end of the day it's just you. You have to make your own decisions and depend on yourself. It's your life, so live it how you want. Second, partying with friends is a lot of fun, but you have to know how to balance your social life and school. Why pay to go to classes if you never go or you don't learn anything? Partying is fun now, but what are you going to do a few years down the road? Your friends are going to have their careers started and will be gone. You don't want to be stuck without an education and thousands of dollars in debt. So find a happy medium and think a little about your future.

The final, and most important lesson to me, is to always guard your heart. I believe everyone will get burned by someone they care about at least once in their life. It's inevitable, but not the end of the world. You need to take risks, meet new people, and learn from your experiences when you do get hurt. Everyone gets hurt, disappointed, and let down in their life. How you handle these downers will form who you are as a person. "What doesn't kill you will make you stronger". It doesn't get any truer than that.

Beer Before Liquor, You've Never Been Sicker

I'm sure you've all heard that familiar saying, "Beer before liquor, you've never been sicker. Liquor before beer and you're in the clear." Take this saying, and LISTEN TO IT! I can tell you from personal experience that if you start off drinking beer, and switch to shots or mixed drinks, you are NOT going to be feeling the greatest in the morning. Now does this mean you will ALWAYS get sick? NO. Does this mean that you can drink all the liquor you want and then switch to beer without any consequences? Absolutely not. It still comes down to moderation, but you have a much better chance of a hangover if you start with beer and switch to liquor. This previous Wednesday was a perfect example for me. I started the night out with a few Bud Light Limes, and then started slamming shots of 99 Berries, Malibu, and Tequila. Sure I was feeling good, but the morning after was not so great. I felt like I got hit by a bus, my head weighed a hundred pounds, and I puked up everything I ate or drank. It SUCKED. Now was this just because I had TOO much to drink? That was defiantly a factor. However, I've had nights where I've drank more liquor than that, and drank beer at the end of the night rather than the beginning, and I felt perfectly fine the next day. So it seems to me that this old wise tale is actually true. It may not be scientifically proven, but my experiences lead me to believe it is. I'll take my knowledge from my experiences over science any day.

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LCD Where You Cannot See

So we've all heard about the "date rape drug", right? I'm sure you're parents, teachers, and maybe even friends have warned you about it while at parties. But you think to yourself; it won't happen to me. That's the kind of thing that happens to "other" people. Well, if that's what you think, it's time to wise up. There are predators EVERYWHERE out there, just WAITING to slip a roofie into your drink. I used to think it'd never happen to me, or anyone I know, until this past December. Fortunately for me, I wasn't drugged, but my friend on the other hand was not so lucky. A group of friends and I went back to our home town for a party during Christmas Break. We are from a really small town, with a population of 888 people, so we didn't think anything bad could happen. After all, that only happens in big cities right? The night went pretty well, but a friend and I (who weren't drinking) didn't feel like staying so we went home for the night.

We found out the day after that one of the girls that went with us to the party went to the hospital that morning. We got a hold of her and asked her what was up and she told us that she woke up in her car, not knowing what happened the night before, and feeling really sick. We were thinking, ok whatever, you just drank too much. Typical night; no biggy. What she told us next shocked us: she went to the doctors and told them what happened, so they gave her a drug test. When the results came back they were positive for LSD; of which she has never in her life taken. She was shocked, appalled, and in disbelief. She wanted to know what happened that night so we talked to a few of the people who saw her that night. We found out that she had taken off all her clothes, and some guys were dragging her around the house, laughing the entire time. She had absolutely no recollection of it. Everyone that we talked to said she just "disappeared" and know one knew where she was for the remainder of the night. She still doesn't know what exactly happened to her that night, but she now knows to never, EVER, let her drink out of her site. I myself know that I've set my drink down on something and walked away for a little bit and came back and drank it. I won't ever do that again, this I know for sure, but it's just too bad something like this had to happen to open up our eyes. So don't be dumb and think it can't happen to you because it can. Would you rather chance it, or just hold your drink? Think about it.

Parking Tickets: Just Another Way to Rip Us Off

You wake up in the morning to the awful, shrill sound of your alarm clock, and you quickly slap on the snooze. You tell yourself you’re only going to close your eyes for another 2 minutes, and the next thing you know your alarm is going off again and you’ve been sleeping for 20 minutes. So you rush to get ready, stubbing your toe in the process. You run out to your car, slipping on ice and spilling your coffee all over your new white t-shirt. So you run back inside to change, growling to yourself along the way, and rush back out to your car. Despite your best efforts, you walk in late to class. You feel 100 eyes burning into you as you make your way to the back of the room, and take the only empty seat left. The guy you sit next to feels the need to talk to you and tell you his life story while you are attempting to pay attention and he just HAPPENS to have the worst breath you’ve ever smelt. I’m talking the kind that just lingers in the air and smells like rotting flesh, onions, and dog poop combined. Just your luck right? You’re thinking that nothing else could possibly go wrong, until you make it to your car at the end of your already long and miserable day. Sitting on your windshield, nicely tucked under your wipers, is a lime green envelope. You scoop it up and open it to find an $8 fine for parking too close to a crosswalk.

Really? A ticket for parking too close to a crosswalk? The curbs are covered in snow, so how the hell are you to know you aren’t supposed to park there? There aren’t any signs, nor are there any fire hydrants or anything around so it looked like a legit space to you. What harm are you causing by parking too close to a crosswalk? Like seriously; it’s just another way for the city to make money. La Crosse makes about $200,000 a year in parking tickets alone! And what are they doing with that money? They use it to pay the jerks that run around, slapping tickets on everyone and anyone’s cars for any particular reason they can think up at the time. RIDICULOUS. And paying for the tickets; extra ridiculous. You can’t mail in cash payments, so you can either waste a check (to write out a lousy $8), pay online and get charged an additional $3 (total bull****) or drive to the police station and pay at the counter. However, you can’t park in the parking lot or you’ll get yet another ticket, so you have to park on the street and walk a block or two to get there. Don’t be surprised if there is yet another ticket, for some ridiculous reason, on your windshield when you return to your vehicle. They hand those babies out like candy. My suggestion to future students, pay the $77 for a parking permit. By the end of the semester, you’ll have paid double that from all the parking tickets you’ll acquire.

College Glam and Sham 101

College college college...gotta love it. There are so many great things about it; parties, meeting new people, trying new things, expanding your knowledge, etc. Unfortunately, with every good experience comes some bad ones. If I knew at the beginning of my freshman year what I know now, my college experience would have been MUCH easier. If I would've had someone give me advice about common college situations, I would've made some better decisions as I made my way through my college adventure. (Well, probably not..I'm way too stubborn.) I want to share my opinions and experiences on everything from beer, boys, parking tickets, and roomates. I hope by reading my blogs you'll learn through my mistakes, as well as my accomplishments, and prepare to make the next 2-4 years of your life amazing ones.